x̄ - > Gender Is Culturally Prescribed Role, Rather Than a Biological Sex

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Have you been asked to fill out a questionnaire with the question "select your gender?" or "select your sex?". Most of us get confused with the two terms, and so did I before learning the terms. In most cases, the choices available for gender are binary, man or woman. As for sex, the options are often male, female, or others. World Health Organization (WHO) defines gender as

"Gender is the characteristics of women, men, girls, and boys that are socially constructed. This includes norms, behaviors, and roles compared with being a woman, man, girl, or boy and relationships with each other. As a social construct, gender differs from society to society and can change over time."

WHO further defines sex as biological characteristics that determine humans as male or female. Therefore, sex and gender are not similar as most people perceive. 

Gender brings along gender identity that is crowned by society. Women are (sex) female, and men are (sex) male. The others (intersex) lack a gender role in the current society due to a few reasons we shall mention later in the article.

Gender and Gender identity have a massive role in society. Culturally being a woman gives you roles different from being a man. Women in the African culture are often distinguished by wearing a skirt and planting their hair. Like the Arabs, men in the Asian culture wear robes similar to the Skirt worn by the African women. The Similarity does not make the society confuse African women and Arab men.

British men in Kilt

There are certain criticism theories and controversial statements made in reference to gender and sex. The major one is (sex) intersex, who is neither male nor female. The intersex possesses both external genitalia, making them outcasts. Gender is binary and defines woman and man and not both. 

Children born with both the vagina and penis face an unwelcome society that does not give them social status in the gender arena. The parents of these kids ask for surgery to normalize the kid or somewhat correct the situation. Later on, the child blames the parent for making the wrong decision on their sex, the male child's body starts to produce excess estrogen, and the female child's body starts to produce extra testosterone. To correct the situation, the parent should give their children the liberty to consent to the sex of their liking at a certain age.

Sex, gender, and sexuality go hand in hand. Sexuality is defined as the expression of sexual feelings that drive sex activities. Human beings possess biological characteristics like the external reproductive organs female (vagina) and male (penis). The organs help identify sexuality and sex drives. Transgender and Heterosexual are the central sexualities in the modern world. Sexuality somehow affects gender roles in society as some of the transgender tend to take up positions of the opposite gender.

Men role in the society is universal.

In conclusion, gender, and biological sex dramatically affect the role of humans in society. Women are involved in relationships and home private affairs as men more universal in their duties. However, sexuality affects the social functions of men and women. Other factors, such as upcoming human rights that equalize women and men, significantly affect gender culturally influenced roles. 

x̄ - > Woman Sexual health; The dos and don'ts during sex

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In my previous article woman sexual health orgasm, we talked about orgasm. Through the feedback, I have met a few women and men who are impressed and willing to explore. Here are some pointers to get you through the entire process. But before that, let me highlight a crucial theme in all these topics.

Baby, you're the man.

But I got the, I got the, I got the power

You make rain

But I make it, I make it, I make it shower

You should know, I'm the one who's in control

I'll let you come take the wheel, long as you don't forget

Who got the power?

I got the, I got the power

I got the, I got the power

I got the, I got the power

power by little mix

source: Power lyrics © Bmg Gold Songs, 360 Music, Artist Publishing Group East, Robopop Musik, Sony/atv Music Publishing Allegro (UK), Jayded Ink Publishing

Knowledge is power, and enlightening a woman in society Is essential; however, most women do not know how to use the power to better themselves. They use it to make people bow before them. This behavior also applies to women in bed. Some women argue that since they earn more than their partners or have a higher hierarchy in society than the husband, they will and do not submit fully. Men are the head in any situation; allowing them to lead our homes is not a sign of weakness; it's a sign of submission.

Here are some of the pointers,

Submit

Submission is the art of fully admitting to your partner or husband. Unless a woman is the dominant one in a relationship, which only happens in the BDSM relationship, women submit to their husbands or partners in a normal patriarchal society. Submission does not mean that you do everything you are asked. Submission requires a woman to give her man all of her during sex. Some may ask, how do I submit? We can start with; allowing your man to spank you, letting him explore each part of your body, talking to him about your insecurities regarding sex. Men like it when a woman submits because it's a sign of respect.

Giving feedbacks

Ever did something, and you expected a compliment or a complaint? Well, it happens to men too. They expect after or during sex feedback. When he touches you places you have never been touched, let him know. If you came for the very first time, let him know. If he bit your nipple too hard, let him know. Men thrive in challenges and accept correction as it is. Men also appreciate and feel proud if they accomplished something. Most women are ashamed to talk after sex, and others are afraid that the man will leave. Here is a red pill, a real man will not leave because you had the guts to tell him you are not sexually satisfied. A real man will stay and try to solve the problem.

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Communication

Giving feedback is part of communication, but let us talk about conversations. We like talking dirty to make fun of the situation or to make a joke. Talking dirty helps a relationship, especially sexually. If you text your guy, 'I can't wait to get undressed before you,' it shows that you are thinking about him, you are very horny, last night was terrific, can't wait for today. Having pillow talks before and after sex makes it easier to compliment and complain about different issues that are happening to you sexually or emotionally.

cleanliness

Most women are immaculate, organized, and even pretty, but they often regret why they deserved or fell in love with that kind of a man. A man who sweats a lot, a man whose dental stinks or even their feet. One way to solve these kinds of issues is to talk to your partner. Let them know you are not comfortable with how they smell when they sweat, then listen to what they have to say and then come up with a solution together. Secondly, you can introduce to them some fun activities like taking showers together, trying masculine perfume and lotion, brushing teeth together, and all those solutions to the issue of cleanliness. A sweet smell is a turn-on to women.

Be honest

Most men have turned out to be sperm dispensers because women are often lying to them. If you honestly came, let him know do not fake a climax with a bit of shout. Let sex be an activity you enjoy doing, and when you cum you will genuinely give a little sigh of relief as you release. 

Safe days

Finally, our controversial subtopic is safe days. I am not here to talk about birth control. On your safe days, which are approximately seven days before your periods and seven days after your periods, most women are usually horny and very vulnerable. On these days, they seek attention, and of course, a dick. Knowing the days you are horny gives you time to prepare and dress in a sexy manner; it also makes you want to try out a new sex position and even talk about what you expect and need during sexual activity. 

x̄ - > Alpha Female, the Ultimate woman

Every woman wants to be an Alpha. 

A wolf

Alpha in the English dictionary means to dominate or social dominance. Humans don't run in packs, but animals do, especially Wolves and Lions. Perhaps in our daily lives, the word Alpha is mentioned to portray a strong and independent male or female. An alpha is regarded as a man who portrays certain characteristics such as protection, confidence, and good leadership qualities in males. An alpha female is not expected to portray masculinity, instead, she possesses specific

characteristics;

Learners

Female alphas love knowledge. Knowledge-acquiring methods include reading, traveling, observing, and listening. In the modern world, social arenas give us a place to determine an alpha female. Women are good at emotional reading, and if it's crowned with knowledge it builds a woman's expertise and an innovative mind.

Self-confidence

A confident woman does not need public approval. She creates a perfect world for herself where her ability to stand tall is not undermined by either other women or men in a society or a social group. Confidence is contagious, and it makes people around a female alpha demonstrate the same in her absence. People admire confident women.

Stand tall. 

Dropped the scarcity mindset

A scarcity mind limits a woman's ability to come up with a solution to a problem. It makes her feel cornered and boxed. Dropping the behavior means mastering the ability to create a plan B to a solution that is uncertain and letting go of what can not be changed.

Fearless leaders

In a patriarchal society, being a woman and leader is not likely to work. Women in leadership support their interests and are often influenced by male leaders. Alpha female leaders lead by example, are fierce, courageous, resilient, hardworking, and honest. In their homes, they bow to their husbands not to worship but to recognize that the man is the leader and a home can not be run by two leaders.

It takes 10000hrs for the brain to master anything.

In conclusion, alpha females exist amongst us. Being financially independent does not make a woman an alpha. Female Alpha dominates in different areas like social groups, at home, and at work. Most women possess the above traits, but they feel like they need more. Female alpha-ness is not about power is about taking control of their destinies and fates through mastering the art of self-development, which is a gradual process cultivated daily by applying the traits mentioned earlier in the article.

It takes 10000 hours to master anything. Self-development is a crucial part to master in a female alpha's life.