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Dear ladies,

We are in times when our grandmothers fought for our liberty. I do not want to sound like a feminist, however, God gave women a sixth sense for a reason, the five senses are often overshadowed by the heart, the sixth sense is a light in the tunnel, a light at the end of the tunnel, flashlight in a dark room. Ignoring the sixth sense breeds emotional imbalance, emotional imbalance births decisions that jeopardize our lives.

The women before us fought for our equality as men but we can never be equal as men, true liberty is being able to walk out of your marriage that is not working and to find a welcoming society, its the right to say no to a man who wants a romantic relationship and he leaves satisfied, its the creation of awareness among men that a woman short dress or the fact that she is a woman is no consent to sex.

Women are the most Unique creatures alive, we give birth and undergo an imaginable kind of pain, we carry our kids in our wombs for 9 months, we get body shamed for baby fats, we are rejected by men we love, we miscarriage, we carry the burden of being barren, and yet here we are standing tall and stronger than before. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. 

A real woman puts her life first because her family needs her whole, she puts her kids' needs before hers, she takes care of her body for the sake of her husband, she takes her responsibilities very seriously because the world's prosperity depends on it. However, she runs when her life is threatened, she screams when her children are mistreated, she asks for help when a man molest her, she leaves if her husband is ungrateful. 

This is personal to me because I want a little girl, a young woman, or a lady seated somewhere reading this to realize that she is not alone. The world is a beautiful place to be in that is why we still live in it. If you feel rejected, look at yourself in the mirror, they did not deserve that beautiful body, you deserve much more than a person who rejects you. If he said no to a date put on a nice dres' pick-up your phone call an uber to a restaurant you can afford, order a nice meal. How does it feel? A woman's best gift to herself is self-love. A woman who knows how to treat herself right can teach people around her how to treat her, she can teach her kids how to treat each other. She can learn how to treat her man right. 

Your understanding,

The big sister that you never had.