Woman Sexual health; Orgasm

 Most women lack knowledge of their sexuality. Women who are ashamed to talk about their sexuality because of reasons such as religion or taboos think that to reach climax is a dream or a fantasy. Some myths hinder women from having an orgasm. This article is mainly focusing on women and orgasm.

First things first, let us define orgasm in women. It's a build-up that happens to the cervical muscles during sex or when masturbating. Most of the time, there is no spraying like men, but rather it is realized, giving a heavenly feeling that we can not describe. Men ejaculate, spray semen; unlike men, when women spray during orgasm, it is called squirting.

There are different ways to reach to climax during sexual activity. The most interesting one is the clitoris. The clitoris is a small part of the vagina that has a lot of nerves. One can have a clitoral orgasm if they have oral sex and rubbing it with a finger or fingers. Women are emotional beings, and therefore clitoral sex requires a lot of foreplay garnished with a lot of moments of sweet words and assurance. 

The second is the vaginal orgasm. The vaginal orgasm is the common one in all of the four types. Women can achieve it during penetration. I promised I would not get naughty so, during penetration with a penis. Some women can prefer fingering as a way of penetration. Reaching orgasm during penetration can be challenging, especially if the woman is not horny. The other reason that can make it hard to come to a climax is their male partners. Some men are sperm dispensers; they take their sexual needs before their partners.

The combo is achieved during both clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Just like men, women have an ejaculation, but it is called squirting. When the G-spot is stimulated, and the clitoris is lubricated, it is possible to sprinkle. If you do not believe me check out Maurice Matheka, a Sex therapist, on his social media accounts.

Finally, the erogenous orgasm is very familiar to ticklish women. These delicate women can achieve erogenous orgasm by touching the clitoris, biting the nipple, and kissing the neck. It is a way of having an orgasm when a woman is not up to penetration sex.

In my next article, I will explain why it is crucial to have an orgasm, the details of having all kinds of orgasm, what to believe during sex education, and the dos and don'ts during sex activity.